Afterglow - Looking Back (With a Smile)
My particular dental situation was more involved and more expensive to reverse than the average person’s would be. If you’re reading this, chances are that you can have a smile just as beautiful as mine is now for less money and trouble. On the other hand, I experienced such a gamut of procedures - dental implants, a bridge, crowns and veneers, I am something of a walking testimonial that all things are possible with today’s cosmetic dentistry. I had a full mouth reconstruction in the truest sense of those words.
At the same time, I realize that needing so much, it could have been as big of a disaster or disappointment as it was a success, so I am not advocating anybody leap in with both feet with the first dentist they find. Really know what you’re doing, and carefully gauge the atmosphere and your instinctive reaction to your dentist and his staff. You are a unique person, and you do deserve the very best. First, you have to recognize that, and then, you have to find a dental team that recognizes that too.
The last thing you want is a cookie-cutter smile that fits somebody else’s idea of who you should be. That was not a feeling I ever experienced with Dr. Golpa and his staff. Although they offered me their expert opinions when asked, they listened carefully to my feedback. Rachel, Dr. Golpa’s treatment director, is simply phenomenal, as corny as that sounds. She doesn’t impose or push, she supports and leads when asked to. You are always considered a valuable contributor in the consultation process. If you don’t feel like you are getting that from your dental office or spa, look for another one.
So, now that it’s all said and done, and even considering that I had the absolute best treatment available from a dentist I consider an artist as well as a doctor, was it really worth it?
The answer for me is yes. Most everything you do or buy for yourself is only exciting for a short period of time. We all acclimate so quickly to whatever we have, no matter how astonishing it is. And in a way, with cosmetic dentistry, particularly a full mouth reconstruction, that is a good thing. Because these are now your teeth, this is your smile, and it isn’t and should be something that is simply done to you, but something you’ve become.That said, my smile is gorgeous if I do say so myself, but I am certainly not the only one that says so! It’s something that I can depend on every day, every single time I smile - and of course I do smile a lot.
I think it’s pretty well documented when happens when you smile more. It’s a lot more than just a flash of white teeth - smiles are proven to raise your mood and change the atmosphere around you. It’s good for my mental health, and the mental health of those who spend time around me.
One of the things I have found particularly gratifying is the way people notice my smile. Nobody ever says, “Oh my God, your teeth! Who did them? ” Each one of these babies is an individual, just like my natural teeth were, and while I do catch people staring at my teeth (one of my co-workers said he was glad they weren’t on my chest, it would be too embarrassing not to be able to stop staring) people who don’t know what I did react more favorably to all of me, not just to my teeth. They know something is different, and I cannot tell you how many times people have said to others who relayed it to me, “I never realized what a beautiful smile she has.” My teeth are so natural looking, that they don’t think I had extensive dental work done, just that they somehow never noticed how great my smile is.
But they notice now. It is an extraordinary confidence-booster. I’ve had plenty of time for the excitement of change to wear off - but the benefits of my smile makeover simply have not.
I am at an age where there are a number of cosmetic procedures available that I could have done instead. But I am so glad that this is what I chose, for several reasons:
1. In the world of cosmetic improvement and aesthetics, there just isn’t anything else you can do that looks as good immediately with so little downtime.
2. There is certainly nothing that will, with proper care, last you as long as a complete smile makeover, or be as central to the image you project as your own beautiful, confident smile.
3. And finally, there is no nip or tuck that improves your overall health - but a strong jaw, aligned bite and teeth free from decay most definitely do.
4. If you do decide to later undergo other cosmetic procedures to improve or restore your appearance, you will have a firm foundation in place for everything else.
Of course, even with all the positives, life is still life, and there are bad days. But I don’t add worrying myself sick about my teeth to my list of worries. I have conveniently stopped thinking about what that was like, but when I take the time to remember, I realize how fortunate I am to not have to worry about that any more. And when I think I am not getting enough in life to be happy, or that I am not accomplishing enough, I only have to think about my full mouth reconstruction to realize how lucky I am.
It is my sincere hope that anyone who is seriously considering a smile makeover will at least do themselves the favor of checking it out - and I do mean check it out thoroughly - and have the kind of completely positive experience I have had and am still having. I promise you , you are worth it.